How to conquer limiting beliefs and build a growth mindsetby
Don't let limiting beliefs hold your people back. Through better self-awareness and coaching conversations these hindering thoughts can be transformed into a growth mindset.
Limiting beliefs are a toxic issue pervasive across most organisations today. These misplaced, damaging beliefs are likely holding your employees back from meeting both your business objectives and their own personal development goals and aspirations.
When limiting beliefs run rife, individuals are unable to fully meet their potential. It has nothing to do with their capability or levels of productivity and ambition. Rather it is those wretched beliefs holding them back and convincing them that they cannot do certain things.
It’s bad enough if just one person feels like that. But how about if this is happening across your whole organisation?
If you have a significant proportion of employees whose beliefs are holding them back, it could be silently paralysing performance and affecting your entire organisation.
What is a limiting belief?
A limiting belief is a thought, opinion or a state of mind that fixes someone’s focus towards the negative. Essentially it’s something someone believes to be true about themselves, or other people, or the world around them in general – but most of the time people are unaware that they even have them.
Limiting beliefs can have a number of origins but many are created subconsciously based on emotional responses to experiences – and are often formed as a defence mechanism. Those beliefs are labelled and rationalised. Evidence is found to confirm the belief… and they become part of a person’s mindset.
Your leaders and managers have an essential role to play in helping employees address any limiting beliefs they have.
Limiting beliefs are a huge barrier to success
Inevitably limiting beliefs hold people back, almost becoming a kind of self-fulfilling prophecy. If someone is certain they cannot do something, they’ll never give it a try, therefore they will never recognise what they’re truly capable of.
For innovation and creativity, you need people with a growth mindset; people who have a willingness to try and take measured risks, even if things don’t go as hoped. They recognise the value of the learning that comes with it.
Limiting beliefs however go hand in hand with fixed mindsets. They individually hold people back from recognising opportunities and reaching their potential, and as a result collectively affect performance across an organisation.
You can imagine the impact of this type of thinking in your company.
The language of limiting beliefs
You might not realise it but you could already be hearing the language of limiting beliefs throughout your organisation in the meetings you attend, in the conversations you have and even in your own inner voice.
Once you’ve started to tune into it, you’ll become more aware of it. Here is what to watch out for:
- “I must avoid failure at all costs.”
- “I’ll never be able to do something like that.”
- “We’ve always done it that way.”
- “I can’t put myself forward for that job because I haven’t got enough experience / am too old / am too young / could never do it.”
Start listening carefully and you’ll begin to recognise the differences between the pragmatic assessments of what can or can’t be accomplished at a given point in time versus when it is limiting beliefs that are blocking the way.
Moving towards a new mindset
Your leaders and managers have an essential role to play in helping employees address any limiting beliefs they have, while also overcoming any that they might hold about themselves too.
Raise their awareness about the existence of limiting beliefs and the impact they can have, then develop their understanding on how to coach others and use self-coaching to overcome those beliefs and redefine mindsets.
By using coaching to raise a greater level of awareness of beliefs held, an organisation can build a powerful culture.
Coaching to reframe limiting beliefs
Overcoming limiting beliefs takes more than a one-size-fits-all quick fix and this is why coaching is so powerful. It facilitates an ongoing process of reflection and enables reframing to take place.
Through coaching conversations, an individual can start to identify their limiting beliefs, firstly acknowledging them and then thinking through how to reframe them by consciously choosing positive beliefs about themselves and others. By bringing these subconscious boundaries into their consciousness, they can question them, reflect on them and then begin the process of rewriting them.
So what kinds of questions could be asked to raise self-awareness and begin to shift those beliefs? Here are a few examples:
What evidence do you have that this belief is true for you?
How does this belief impact on the way you do your work?
What would happen if it turned out that the limiting belief wasn’t true for you?
What could happen if you changed that belief?
Create the language of possibility
Setting out strategies and goals is essential in every organisation. But accomplishing them relies on people who must not only have the capabilities to achieve them, but who also have enough belief in themselves as well. By using coaching to raise a greater level of awareness of beliefs held, an organisation can build a powerful culture where the emphasis is on having a growth mindset and the language of possibility.
Interested in this topic? Read 'Why HR needs to be vocal about imposter syndrome.'
As co-founder of coaching enablement solutions company Coaching Culture, Jo’s a passionate advocate for the many benefits a coaching culture creates for people and organisations.
With nearly 30 years’ experience in leading and coaching teams, and as a professionally accredited coach, Jo is a coaching champion on a mission to inspire...
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As someone who is still in school and will be entering the workforce soon, this was an important read. I feel like it is very common for a young professional to have some of the limiting beliefs outlined in this article due to them not really knowing what to expect from their new job. In addition, young professionals don't want to be viewed as inexperienced or naive, so they may be wary of taking risks or avoiding new jobs/responsibilities at their place of work. It is easy for someone to fall into a place of comfort and complacency at work because they feel like they are doing a satisfactory job where they are currently at; picking up new tasks or maybe even a promotion has the ability to scare someone off because they don't believe that they are capable or good enough to fulfill the responsibilities. If individuals took the time to put fear aside and believed in themselves more, they can possibly see a great benefit in numerous areas in their lives. This is no easy task, so a sufficient amount of time and preparation must go into the planning and strategies that make it possible for people to make that leap of faith that ultimately has the possibility to help them grow and flourish.